But you know, my dad called me the laziest white kid he ever met. When I screamed back at him that he was putting down a race of people to call me lazy, his answer was that's not what he was doing, and that I was also the dumbest white kid he ever met.
Norman Lear
Happy Wednesday!
July 27 is the 208th day of the year (209th in leap years) in the Gregorian calendar. There are 157 days remaining until the end of the year. I hope you're spending your time wisely!
I wonder if I spent my time wisely in the 70s. I watched a LOT of television and one name that I was familiar with even as a kid was Norman Lear. On Saturday nights in the 70s, our television set was tuned into the landmark sitcom in which a Queens loading dock worker named Archie Bunker was the hero.
All in the Family was simultaneously the most popular and controversial show of the 1970's.
Never before had a situation comedy brought Americans face-to-face with each other via the medium of television, utilizing controversial themes such as sexuality and race relations to comprise story lines.
Today, Norman Lear is 89! Norman Milton Lear (born July 27, 1922) is an American television writer and producer who produced such 1970s sitcoms as All in the Family, Sanford and Son, One Day at a Time, The Jeffersons, Good Times and Maude. As a political activist, he founded the civil liberties advocacy organization People For the American Way in 1981 and has supported First Amendment rights and liberal causes.
Lear was born in New Haven, Connecticut, the son of Jeanette (née Seicol) and Herman Lear, who worked in sales.He grew up in a Jewish home and had a Bar Mitzvah.
Lear went to high school in Hartford, Connecticut and subsequently attended Emerson College in Boston, but dropped out in 1942 to join the United States Army Air Forces. During World War II, he served in the Mediterranean Theater as a radio operator/gunner on Boeing B-17 Flying Fortress bombers with the 772nd Bombardment Squadron, 463rd Bombardment Group (Heavy) of the Fifteenth Air Force. He flew 52 combat missions, for which he was awarded the Air Medal with four Oak Leaf Clusters. Lear was discharged from the Army in 1945. He and his fellow World War II crew members are featured in the book "Crew Umbriago" by Daniel P.Carroll (tail gunner), and also in another book: 772nd Bomb Squadron: The Men, The Memories by Turner Publishing Company.
In 1954, Lear was enlisted as a writer hoping to salvage the new Celeste Holm CBS sitcom, Honestly, Celeste!, but the program was canceled after eight episodes. During this time, he became the producer of NBC's The Martha Raye Show, after Nat Hiken left as the series director.
In 1959, Lear created his first television series starring Henry Fonda, a half-hour western for Revue Studios called The Deputy. Starting out as a comedy writer, then a film director (he wrote and produced the 1967 film Divorce American Style and directed the 1971 film Cold Turkey, both starring Dick Van Dyke), Lear tried to sell a concept for a sitcom about a blue-collar American family to ABC. They rejected the show after two pilots were filmed. After a third pilot was shot, CBS picked up the show, known as All in the Family. It premiered January 12, 1971 to disappointing ratings, but it took home several Emmy Awards that year, including Outstanding Comedy Series. The show did very well in summer reruns, and it flourished in the 1971-1972 season, becoming the top-rated show on TV for the next five years.
After falling from the #1 spot, All in the Family still remained in the top ten, well after it transitioned into Archie Bunker's Place. The show was based on the British sitcom Til Death Us Do Part, about an irascible working-class Tory and his Socialist son-in-law.
Lear's second big TV hit was also based on a British sitcom, Steptoe and Son, about a west London junk dealer and his son. Lear changed the setting to the Watts section of Los Angeles and the characters to African-Americans, and the NBC show Sanford and Son was an instant hit. Numerous hit shows followed thereafter, including Maude (the lead character of which was reportedly based on Lear's then-wife Frances), The Jeffersons (both spin-offs of All in the Family), and One Day at a Time.
What most of the Lear sitcoms had in common was that they were character-driven, had sets that more resembled stage plays than common sitcom sets, were shot on videotape in place of film, used a live studio audience, and most importantly dealt with the social and political issues of the day. Ironically, although Lear's shows are often considered somewhat autobiographical and closely identified with his personal experiences, his early hits were actually all adapted from someone else's creations: the two aforementioned British adaptations and Maude, while reputedly based on Lear's wife, was actually the brainchild of series producer Charlie Hauck. Also, with the exception Maude, another thing that all of these show had in common was that much of the ideas were the ideas and/or creation of the brilliant writers Eric Monte and Mike Evans; of whom Norman Lear and his buddies to this day will not give credit to nor did they pay them.
Carroll O'Connor as Archie Bunker, a bigoted blue-collar worker whose ignorant stubbornness tends to cause his arguments to self-destruct. By the time of Archie Bunker's Place, however, the character has mellowed somewhat and is no longer as explicitly bigoted as he had been during All in the Family, even agreeing to go into business with Murray, who's Jewish, and becoming close friends with him.
All in the Family
All in the Family is an American sitcom that was originally broadcast on the CBS television network from January 12, 1971 to April 8, 1979. In September 1979, a new show, Archie Bunker's Place, picked up where All in the Family had ended. This sitcom lasted another four years, ending its run in 1983.
Produced by Norman Lear, it was based on the British television comedy series Till Death Us Do Part.
The show broke ground in its depiction of issues previously considered unsuitable for U.S. network television comedy, such as racism, homosexuality, women's liberation, rape, miscarriage, abortion, breast cancer, the Vietnam War, menopause and impotence.
"Even when they don't know who Nixon was, these shows will continue to play."
Norman Lear
The show ranked #1 in the yearly Nielsen ratings from 1971 to 1976. It became the first television series to reach the milestone of having topped the Nielsen ratings for five consecutive years, a mark later matched by The Cosby Show and surpassed by American Idol, which notched its sixth consecutive year at #1 in 2010 and whose streak is still ongoing. TV Guide's 50 Greatest TV Shows of All Time ranked All in the Family as #4. Bravo also named the show's protagonist, Archie Bunker, TV's greatest character of all time.
The comedy revolves around Archie Bunker (Carroll O'Connor), a working-class World War II veteran. He is a very outspoken bigot, seemingly prejudiced against everyone who is not a U.S.-born, politically conservative, heterosexual White Anglo-Saxon Protestant, and dismissive of anyone not in agreement with his view of the world. His ignorance and stubbornness tend to cause his malapropism-filled arguments to self-destruct. He often responds to uncomfortable truths by blowing a raspberry. He longs for simpler times when people sharing his viewpoint were in charge, as evidenced by the nostalgic theme song "Those Were the Days", the show's original title.
By contrast, his wife Edith (Jean Stapleton) is a sweet and understanding—if somewhat naïve—woman.
She usually defers to her husband. On the rare occasions when Edith takes a stand she proves to be one of the wisest characters, as evidenced in the episodes "The Battle of the Month" and "The Games Bunkers Play". Archie often tells her to "stifle" herself and calls her a "dingbat".
Despite their different personalities they love each other deeply.
This covered the entire span of the 70s and my life from the time I was 10 until I was 18. And Archie Bunker's Place covered my first few years in NY.
Archie Bunker's Place is an American sitcom originally broadcast on the CBS network, conceived in 1979 as a spin-off and continuation of All in the Family. While not as popular as its predecessor, the show maintained a large enough audience to last four seasons until its cancellation in 1983. The first season, the show performed so well that it knocked Mork & Mindy out of its new Sunday night time slot. A year before, Mork & Mindy had been the #3 show on television during its first season.
Archie Bunker's Place continued on from All in the Family.
Although the Bunker home, the primary set for the original series, was featured, the new series was primarily set in the titular Archie Bunker's Place, the neighborhood tavern in Queens which Archie Bunker (Carroll O'Connor)
purchased in the eighth-season premiere of All in the Family. During the premiere of Archie Bunker's Place, Bunker takes on a Jewish partner, Murray Klein (Martin Balsam), when co-owner Harry Snowden decides to sell his share of the business.
Early in the first season, to increase business, Archie and Murray build a restaurant onto the bar; the additions include a separate seating area for the restaurant and a well-equipped kitchen with service window. The regular patrons include Barney Hefner, Hank Pivnik, and Edgar Van Ranseleer.
Archie Bunker's Place was the sounding board for Archie's views, support from his friends, and Murray's counterpoints. Later in the series, after Murray re-marries and leaves for San Francisco, Archie finds a new business partner, Gary Rabinowitz (Barry Gordon), whose views were liberal in contrast to Archie's political conservatism.
Jean Stapleton continued to play Archie's wife Edith Baines-Bunker when Archie Bunker's Place premiered.
The show featured Edith occasionally during the first season, but Stapleton decided to leave the series late in 1979; her character was referred to but unseen during the rest of the 1979-1980 season. The writers and producers addressed Stapleton's departure in the Season 2 premiere, explaining that Edith had died of a stroke. Archie reflected on his wife's passing, and eventually, began dating other women.
Born in New York City, O'Connor studied at the University of Montana, the National University of Ireland and University College Dublin. He first began to act while overseas, joining the famed Dublin Gate Theatre. Returning to New York, he won his first professional roles such off Broadway plays as Ulysses in Nighttown and The Big Knife.
In 1960, Hollywood producer Roy Huggins saw him in the NBC-TV special The Sacco- Vanzetti Story and signed him to play a key role in the film A Fever in the Blood.
During the next 11 years, O'Connor appeared in 25 films for all major studios, and became established as one of Hollywood's most versatile character actors in such films as Lonely Are the Brave, Cleopatra, Point Blank, Waterhole #3, By Love Possessed, Lad: A Dog, In Harm 's Way, The Devil 's Brigade, Hawaii, Not With My Wife You Don 't, Warning Shot, Marlowe, Death of a Gunfighter, Kelly 's Heroes, Doctors' Wives, Law and Disorder and his own adaptation for television of The Last Hurrah for Hallmark Hall of Fame.
Between films he made guest appearances on television programs such as the U.S. Steel Hour, Kraft Theatre, Armstrong Circle Theatre and most of the filmed series hits of the 1960s, as well as writing, acting and directing plays in Los Angeles.
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Wednesday, July 27, 2011
What Good Is Sitting Alone In Your Room? Perhaps Norman Lear!
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
Pressure with the thumbs, matrimony comes...Celebrating The Sanctity of Marriage...Between A MAN and a WOMAN....as God Intended!
To love someone deeply gives you strength. Being loved by someone deeply gives you courage."
— Chinese Philosopher Lao Tzu
Happy Tuesday!
I hope this finds you all well and celebrating LOVE today! I Love you for taking the time to join me on this journey celebrating weddings and marriage. As you all must know by now, marriage equality is for ALL in New York! My partner and I got married on Sunday after 21 years together. Not 50 as one paper said! Perhaps sometimes it feels like 50 years! Sometimes, it feels like we just met. 850 couples got married on Sunday! Isn't that exciting? I really wish that EVERYONE could have experienced and seen first hand the love filling City Hall on Sunday. If you saw my blog on Sunday, you may recall that we were joined by our friends Pat & Joe, Tom & Leslie, Frank & Doug.
A very intimate affair.
As we waited in line waiting to go in, people in line were singing, congratulating each other, laughing, crying, celebrating.
Of course, there were the detractors as well. At one point, Leslie pointed out the Phelps Church crackpots across the street. That "church" consists of The Phelps family. How sad that all of their energy is used for channeling hatred rather than love!
Imagine what they could do with if that negativity was turned around!
Why does the idea of two people who love each other getting married scare so many people? I keep hearing over and over that this will destroy the sanctity of marriage!
Since I am all about building up rather than tearing down, today I want to celebrate the sanctity of marriage...between a MAN and a WOMAN...the way that God intended!Denying Liza Minnelli and David Gest to marry would have been a violation of religious freedom (civil and religious marriages are two separate institutions).
Do you realize that between Elizabeth Taylor, Mickey Rooney, Zsa Zsa Gabor, Judy Garland, and Liza Minnelli, that there have been 35 marriages! And some people in this country are denied ONE! Something is wrong with those numbers!
Taylor was married eight times to seven husbands.
When asked why she married so often, she replied, "I don't know, honey.
It sure beats the hell out of me,"but also said that, "I was taught by my parents that if you fall in love, if you want to have a love affair, you get married. I guess I'm very old-fashioned."(Elizabeth Taylor and Conrad "Nicky" Hilton)
Michael Wilding : The "gentle" Wilding, 20 years older than Taylor, comforted her after leaving Hilton.
After their divorce Taylor admitted that "I gave him rather a rough time, sort of henpecked him and probably wasn't mature enough for him."
Michael Todd : Todd's death ended Taylor's only marriage not to result in divorce. Although their relationship was tumultuous, she later called him one of the three loves of her life, along with Burton and jewelry.
Eddie Fisher (May 12, 1959 – March 6, 1964): Fisher, Todd's best friend, consoled Taylor after Todd's death. They began an affair while Fisher was still married to Debbie Reynolds, causing a scandal;Taylor outraged columnist Hopper by telling her, "Well, Mike is dead and I'm alive...What do you expect me to do? Sleep alone?"
Reynolds eventually forgave Taylor; she voted for her when Taylor was nominated for an Oscar for Butterfield 8, and starred with her in These Old Broads.
Richard Burton (March 15, 1964 – June 26, 1974): The Vatican condemned Burton and Taylor's affair, which began when both were married to others, as "erotic vagrancy".
The press closely followed their relationship before, during, and after their ten years of marriage, due to great public interest in "the most famous film star in the world and the man many believed to be the finest classical actor of his generation."
Taylor wanted to focus on her marriage rather than her career, and gained weight in an unsuccessful attempt to not receive film roles.
Richard Burton (October 10, 1975 – July 29, 1976): Sixteen months after divorcing—Burton said, "You can't keep clapping a couple of sticks [of dynamite] together without expecting them to blow up"
—they remarried in a private ceremony in Kasane, Botswana, but soon separated and re divorced in 1976.
Burton disagreed with others about her famed beauty, acknowledging her "wonderful eyes" but saying that calling her "the most beautiful woman in the world is absolute nonsense. She has...a double chin and an overdeveloped chest, and she's rather short in the leg."
He stated, however, that when he first saw Taylor in 1952, "She was unquestionably gorgeous. I can think of no other word to describe a combination of plentitude, frugality, abundance, tightness. She was lavish. She was a dark unyielding largesse. She was, in short, too bloody much."
John Warner (December 4, 1976 – November 7, 1982): As with Burton, Taylor sought to be known as the wife of her husband, a RepublicanUnited States Senator from Virginia.
Unhappy with her life in Washington,however, Taylor became depressed and entered the Betty Ford Clinic.
Larry Fortensky (October 6, 1991 – October 31, 1996): Taylor and Fortensky met during another stay at the Betty Ford Clinic and were married at the Neverland Ranch.
Taylor had many romances outside her marriages. Before marrying Hilton she was engaged to both Heisman Trophy winner Glenn Davis—who did not know until the relationship ended that Taylor's mother had encouraged it to build publicity for her daughter—and the son of William D. Pawley, the United States Ambassador to Brazil.Howard Hughes promised Taylor's parents that if they would encourage her to marry him, the enormously wealthy industrialist and film producer would finance a movie studio for her; Sara Taylor agreed, but Taylor refused.
After she left Hilton Hughes returned, proposing to Taylor by suddenly landing a helicopter nearby and sprinkling diamonds on her.
Other dates included Frank Sinatra, Henry Kissinger, and Malcolm Forbes.
In 2007, Taylor denied rumors of a ninth marriage to her partner Jason Winters,but referred to him as "one of the most wonderful men I've ever known."
“Always get married early in the morning. That way, if it doesn't work out, you haven't wasted a whole day.”
-Mickey Rooney!
Rooney has been married eight times. In the 1950s and 1960s, he was often the subject of comedians' jokes for his alleged inability to stay married. His current marriage, to Jan Chamberlin, has lasted more than 30 years which is longer than his previous seven marriages combined.
In 1942, he married Hollywood starlet Ava Gardner, but the two were divorced well before she became a star in her own right. While stationed in the military in Alabama in 1944, Rooney met and married local beauty queen Betty Jane Phillips.
This marriage ended in divorce after he returned from Europe at the end of World War II. His subsequent marriages to Martha Vickers
(1949) and Elaine Mahnken(1952) were also short-lived and ended in divorce.
In 1958, Rooney married Barbara Ann Thompson,but tragedy struck when she was murdered in 1966. Falling into deep depression, he married Barbara's friend, Marge Lane, who helped him take care of his young children.
The marriage lasted only 100 days.
He was married to Carolyn Hockett from 1969 to 1974, but financial instability ended the relationship.
Finally, in 1978, Rooney married Jan Chamberlin, his eighth wife. As of 2011, they live in Westlake Village, California. Both are outspoken advocates for veterans and animal rights.
"Men have always liked me and I have always liked men. But I like a mannish man, a man who knows how to talk to and treat a woman—not just a man with muscles."
-Zsa Zsa Gabor
Gabor has been married nine times. She was divorced seven times, and one marriage was annulled. Her husbands, in chronological order, are:
Burhan Asaf Belge (1937–1941) (divorced)[13]
Conrad Hilton (April 10, 1942–1947) (divorced)[13][14]
George Sanders (April 2, 1949 – April 2, 1954) (divorced)[13]
Herbert Hutner (November 5, 1962 – March 3, 1966) (divorced)[15][16]
Joshua S. Cosden, Jr. (March 9, 1966 – October 18, 1967) (divorced)[17]
Jack Ryan (January 21, 1975 – August 24, 1976) (divorced)[18]
Michael O'Hara (August 27, 1976–1983) (divorced)[19]
Felipe de Alba (April 13, 1983 – April 14, 1983) (annulled)[20]
Frédéric Prinz von Anhalt (August 14, 1986 – present)
Behind every cloud is another cloud.
Judy Garland
Garland began a relationship with musician David Rose, and, on her 18th birthday, Rose gave her an engagement ring. The studio intervened because Rose was still married at the time to the actress and singer Martha Raye. The couple agreed to wait a year to allow for Rose's divorce from Raye to become final, and were wed on July 27, 1941.
Garland, who had aborted her pregnancy by Rose in 1942, agreed to a trial separation in January 1943, and they divorced in 1944.
During the filming of Meet Me in St. Louis, after some initial conflict between them, Garland and Vincent Minnelli entered a relationship together. They were married June 15, 1945,and on March 12, 1946, daughter Liza Minnelli was born.In 1951, Garland divorced Vincente Minnelli.
She engaged Sid Luft as her manager the same year.
Luft arranged a four-month concert tour of the United Kingdom, where she played to sold-out audiences throughout England, Scotland, and Ireland.
The tour included Garland's first appearances at the renowned London Palladium, for a four-week stand in April.
Although some in the British press chided her before her opening for being "too plump", she received rave reviews and the ovation was described by the Palladium manager as the loudest he had ever heard.
Garland and Luft were married on June 8, 1952, in Hollister, California,and Garland gave birth to the couple's first child, Lorna Luft,on November 21 that year and Judy's third child Joey Luft on March 29 1955.
Garland sued Sid Luft for divorce in 1963, claiming "cruelty" as the grounds. She also asserted that Luft had repeatedly struck her while he was drinking and that he had attempted to take their children from her by force.
She had filed for divorce more than once previously, including as early as 1956.
Garland's fourth marriage was to tour promoter Mark Herron.
They announced that their marriage had taken place aboard a freighter off the coast of Hong Kong; however, Garland was not legally divorced from Luft at the time the ceremony was performed.
Her divorce from Luft became final on May 19, 1965,but Herron and Garland did not legally marry until November 14, 1965 and then separated six months later.
By early 1969, Garland's health had deteriorated. She performed in London at the Talk of the Town nightclub for a five-week runand made her last concert appearance in Copenhagen during March 1969.She married her fifth and final husband, Mickey Deans, at Chelsea Register Office, London, on March 15, 1969,her divorce from Heron having been finalized on February 11 of that year.
Liza Minnelli has been married (and divorced) four times. Her first marriage was to Peter Allen (full name Peter Allen Woolnough) on March 3, 1967.Australian-born Allen was Judy Garland's protégé in the mid-1960s.The couple divorced on July 24, 1974.
Later that year, she married Jack Haley, Jr., a producer and director, on September 15, 1974.
His father, Jack Haley, was Garland's co-star in The Wizard of Oz. They divorced in April 1979.
Minnelli was married to Mark Gero, a sculptor and stage manager, from December 4, 1979 until their divorce in January 1992.
She was married to David Gest, a concert promoter, from March 16, 2002, until they divorced in April 2007. (They separated in July 2003.)(Pictured above)
Minnelli also had a relationship with Desi Arnaz Jr., the son of Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz.
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