|Richard Skipper Celebrates May 25th!|
Happy Tuesday, May 17th, 2016!
It is hard to believe that we are halfway through May and this time next month we will be halfway through the year!
It is also hard to believe that in 10 days I will be returning to the stage after an almost five year absence.
I am very excited about this show. It is a culmination of everything that I have learned up to this point. It will be a celebration of LIFE
Let's celebrate! We need to! I hope you'll join us! We HAVE TO SEIZE THE DAY!
Today's blog is very personal to me. In the last few weeks, one of my best friends transitioned. This woman touched everybody that came into contact with her. She was a force of nature. So much, in fact, that I still feel her presence. I feel that she is still among us...and she is! I'm convinced that she is just in Florida. I am talking about Dana Lorge. I hope that all who will read this will see the intent with which I am writing this. I LOVED HER. When people become TRUE "family", they experience the ups and downs of any true family. That is what this blog is about. This was OUR relationship.
There must me some karmic path that I am on. My husband is Dan. My on stage "wife" for a long time was Dana! Dan...Dana!
I met Dana in the summer of 1995. I was appearing as Judy Garland at Don't Tell Mama.
My publicist at the time was Philis Raskind. We were invited to an open house at her one Sunday afternoon. It was like a party at Mame Dennis's with ALL of the denizens that you probably would have found at one of her soirees. Although it was a crowded party,
She was dressed to the nines with the largest lashes I had seen since Carol Channing, glitter lipstick, and bright red acrylic nails. We introduced ourselves and laughed our heads off about silly things. I felt like I knew this woman my entire life. I felt as if I had found a soulmate. There was a man sitting at the piano and a few people got up to sing. I said to her, "Why don't you get up and sing?" She said, "How do you know I'm a singer?" I said, "You look like a singer. Why don't you get up and sing?" She said, "No, I only do special material and obscure songs." I went over to the man sitting at the piano
He tried as well. She said the same thing as well. He said, "What kind of obscure material." He answered with, "Such as?" She responded with "I'd Love to Hate Myself in the Morning". He said, "I wrote that". She started laughing and said, "Of course you did!" He began to play and she almost fell over! The man was John Meyer who WROTE THE SONG!
She, of course, brought the house down, and we were on the path to a long friendship.
I was told by a close friend recently that Dana once told her I was her clone. For a long time, the strangest thing would happen. With no planning, we would sometimes show up wearing the SAME EXACT color!
|Dana and I won TWO MAC Awards for Wednesday Night at the Iguana|
I was wearing a BRIGHT YELLOW shirt and tie and Dana had a matching dress with yellow fur around the sleeves. Everyone was convinced that we had planned it. Over the course of the next few years, from time to time, Dana and I would get the opportunity to do a number or two at a party or special event. She was a frequent guest at our home and I'm going to miss that larger than life presence that always added so much to our home and parties. Her presence is all around me. As I sit here, there is a photo of Dana and I directly across from me with both of OUR MAC Awards on either side of the photo.
In 2009, Joan Crowe was hosting a Wednesday Night series upstairs at The Iguana Restaurant called Hump Night at The Iguana.
We decided that we wanted it to be a
|with Paul Wayne|
We started putting our show together and started getting the word out. The response was so overwhelming right from the start. I was taking our own reservations with the plans to call them in to the Iguana. We got up to 125 reservations and I called the Iguana to let them know to be prepared for the onslaught and to have proper waitstaff on hand.
Unfortunately, they did not heed my warning. The night we started, there was literally a line up the stairs and out on to the street. Our friend Sue Matsuki was collecting money at the door. She, unfortunately, had to deal with the ire of those waiting that could not get seated fast enough.
|Our Christmas show with Frank Basile, Eileen Fulton, and Celeste Holm|
As a matter of fact, Jan Wallman (now passed on) threatened to send out a "review" urging people to stay away! I begged her to give me three weeks to turn everything around. She agreed to grant me that. I told Dana that we needed to set up a meeting with the owners. Dana's first response was, "Oh no! I don't want to lose this!" I told her that it was obvious that we were on to something and if the Iguana did not want us, we would take it
I called the owners and they agreed to meet us the following Tuesday. I thought long and hard about what I would say to them. Dana was both excited and scared about the fate of our future.
I asked her to let me do the talking. We would make this work!
We came in and they could not have been nicer. I began by saying that the last thing that we would ever do would be to come in and tell them how to run their business. However, there were several things that we desired in order to make what we were bringing to the table to make it work. The first was to put in more tables upstairs and to drape those tables with table clothes and candles.
After a few weeks, Joan called me back and said that she had heard about the big crowds we were attracting and felt that we should continue hosting but that if she ever desired to come in to showcase anything new that we would afford her that platform. That was more than fair. Once again, Dana was thrilled that we had this platform. We both were.
I am not sure that those who participated realized how hard it was and how hard we worked to keep the energy going on for as long as we did. Dana and I, together, did it for eighteen months. Once Wednesday night's show was over, we were in a constant grind in prep for the following week.
|with Naomi Miller|
We hit the ground running on Thursday morning. We would begin the day sending out thank yous to the artists who performed at the previous night's show. Dana and I would always talk between 9AM and 10AM assessing what last night's show was like. What worked? What didn't work? What could we do differently next week. We had 21 guests in EVERY show. The phone calls and e-mails were non-stop from those that wanted to be on the show...and then where their placement would be in the show.
We went on to win TWO MAC (Manhattan Association of Cabarets and Clubs) Awards for Variety Show and for Hosts.
On stage, we were having the time of our life! Off stage, the demons that plague most artists began to creep in. We were always trying to top what we had done previously. Dana and I both were very strong personalities and we began to clash on various issues...mostly about trying to accommodate everyone else. We called it the "Mommy/Daddy" syndrome. Someone would call either of us to ask to be in the show.
|with Natasha Castillo|
There were some that even lied to each of us. They would tell one of us that the other promised them a spot in the following week's show. ALL of this led to tension between Dana and me. Dana also expressed concern that some people were pretending to be our friends just to be in the show. That bothered her a lot. I don't know if that was/is true or not, but the calls DID stop after I moved on from The Iguana. The tension continued to escalate. There was a lot of "gimme' gimme'" instead of "What can we do to help?" among the participants...with few exceptions, of course.
I want to set the record straight with today's blog about the events leading up to our on stage break-up and the after math. I worked hard to maintain our friendship in the weeks/months directly after. I did not want to lose Dana as a friend over a show.
By this time, the tension was really rising with Dana and I. She began to find fault with everything I was doing. After the show on September 29th as I was getting ready to leave, Dana pulled me aside and told me that she didn't think it was fair that I was going away. She felt that she would be left taking care of everything. I assured her that everything was already in place for the following week's show. The line-up was in place.
The press releases would be sent out automatically the next morning. I also would have my lap top with me and would devote time daily until the next show.
I left the next day on my way to Palm Springs. I had to change planes in Dallas. While waiting, I checked emails and phone calls. There was a call from someone requesting to be in our Halloween show three weeks away. I assured her that she would be in the show. She wanted to know where she would be in the line up and I explained that I would not know until I put that week's show together on the preceding Thursday. She seemed to accept that.
When I arrive in Palm Springs, there was an urgent message from Dana to call her.
I called her and she wanted to know where this person would be in the line-up. Once again, I explained that that show was three weeks away and that we would address this the week before. Dana snapped at me and I said I wasn't going to argue and that we would address this when we returned. Over the next two days, I received five calls on this issue.
When I received that fifth call, I said to Dana that if I got one more call on this issue, I would NOT return to the Iguana. She said, "That's fine with me!". I said, "It's yours; I will not be returning to The Iguana. Did she mean it? I don't know. I don't think that she took me seriously. I am, however, a man of my word. I called Danny to tell him of my decision. He thought I was making the right decision. I loved Dana but the tension was too much. I'm sure on her end as well.
When I returned to New York, I called Dana the
Dana believed that I broke up with her on Facebook, For all of you who have felt that I did all these years, let me assure you, that is not correct.
Barry Levitt, our musical director, called me to try and convince me to return. He knew what was going on. I told him that I would return on two conditions. She would have to ask me back AND mean it. Barry convinced us all to meet at the now defunct Edison Diner to hash out everything and to possibly reconcile our differences.
Barry and I arrived before Dana got there. We agreed not to talk about anything until she got there. We made small talk until she arrived, about ten minutes later. It was obvious that she was very angry. Barry asked which of us wanted to go first. I said, "Ladies first." She was so angry and felt that I had hurt her so much. She is the last person I would ever want to do this. I said to her that she would probably be better off without me.
|Dana Lorge, Valerie Lemon, Karen Wyman, Camille Saviola, Barbara Minkus, Lauren Schaffel, Rabbi Jill|
It was time for me to move on.
Dana's last night at The Iguana, Dana asked me to appear. It was as if time had stood still. It is a moment that always will remain in my heart. I was even one of Dana's guests at the Metropolitan Room.
Sadly, I did not know of Dana's illness till almost the end. She wanted it that way. Warren Schein, who long time friend and co-host at The Metropolitan Room, told me that Dana told him she would kill him if he told me.
My last social night out with Dana was in November at our friend Esther Goodheart's Birthday Celebration. In January, I was told that Dana had pneumonia.
|Dana Lorge and Warren Schein Photo by Stephen Sorokoff, BroadwayWorld.com|
A few weeks ago, I was told that Dana had been moved to hospice at Calgary. Our mutual friend, Ann Dawson, reached out to Paul and I reached out to Warren and we were both told that if we wanted to see Dana that we should. We planned on going on Wednesday night. Danny and I, Ann Dawson, and Peggy Eason went to see Dana. As we arrived, Esther Goodheart was
Saturday, she was gone. When I walked out of that room that night, I never imagined this would be the last time I would see her. As a matter of fact, Maureen Taylor and I were planning on going back to see her the following Monday. Somehow, I feel it isn't the last time I will see Dana.
Dana had such a presence that it can still be felt by me.
Looking back, would I have done anything differently, I don't know. I will always hold on to the great times that we shared both on stage and off. They far outweigh that period of time when two egos got in the way. I Love You, Dana! I always will!
Here are two Stories I Would Like To Share with Dana anecdotes
When I first saw Dana, I said to myself "She must be a Movie Star... Oh she must be a snob!" Dana
|Maria Ottavia, Bryon Sommers, Dana|
Dana could make a phone book sound hysterical. She would always tell a story with such emotion, I could not stop laughing at her stories. I would choke and laugh at the same time. She first heard me choke and was very concerned and thought I needed help. I told her "No! I can't stop laughing! Then she would laugh too and comment "you laugh at the stupidest things!" I always told Dana she had a very special gift , healing hearts through laughter! I had heard the news of a relatives sudden passing. I was sick all day. I needed so desperately to connect with a creative force to comfort me. Patricia Fitzpatrick, Helena Grenot and Dana Lorge were performing their show at Don't Tell Mama; Barry Levitt was the Music Director . I made my reservation. I arrived early. Dana was nervous. They did not know what the show was about. In her panic, I could not stop laughing. I told Dana it's the best place to be and with the seasoned line up and Maestro Barry, this will be an
As I sat in the lobby while the ladies and Maestro rehearsed behind closed doors , I anxiously awaited the result.
The storyline, Three ladies on a Gay Cruise. All of these amazing people blew the audience away! Dana stole the show! Her Facial expressions, her delivery and the songs. I was choking so much from laughing, my drink sprayed out my nose!! I told Dana how much the show meant to me and she was so glad I was there to have the amazing experience I had ! She was a healer of the heart!
Life is such a gift. Our gift was taken away from us! She was a very private person who wanted you to laugh and be glamorous. I cannot believe she is gone. She was very supportive of me and came to my shows. Her feed back was always the expression on her face and her eyes. The moment her eyes rolled I knew I had some work ahead of me. I love Dana and miss her terribly. I terrible loss!! I wish life were forever. There was so much more to learn from Dana and so much she needed to give the world! She now lives in all of us!
I love you Dana!
|JayCee Driesen and Dana|
Hi Richard When I saw that bling bib around Dana's neck, I fell in love with it!! She was my bling sista!! She gave me a necklace very similar!! That's just one of the many ways how thoughtful she was!! She is so missed!! Thank you for keeping her memory "alive".
|Barry Levitt and Dana Lorge|
|Dana and my family seeing Cinderella on Broadway|
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PLEASE CELEBRATE WITH Richard Skipper MAY 25th in NYC at The Triad!
Richard Skipper Celebrates May 25th! A New Talk/Variety Show! To throw a great party you need great guests...AND he's got them! He will be joined by Carole Demas (celebrating her Birthday!), Kristoffer Lowe, Carolyn Montgomery-Forant, Gretchen Reinhagen, Adam Shapiro, Leslie Orofino, Wendy Scherl, Carol Skarimbas (accompanied by Larry Woodard), and a Mystery Guest! celebrating the many gems of May 25th 8PM Show! Who Will Be OUR MYSTERY GUEST! You'll Have To Be There To See Who It Is! Reservations a MUST! You Never Know Who You Might See There! http://www.richardskipper.com/celebrates.html
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|Thank you, Barry, for the contributions that you have made to both Dana's and my own Life...and continue to do so!|
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