Saturday, April 19, 2014

She IS Dee Wallace

Love yourself and then love yourself and then love yourself more and then you can't help but love
everything and everybody in your Life.
-Dee Wallace

My horoscope yesterday read, "You'll gravitate toward emotionally healthy people. They live with ease AND hardly ever find them SELVES in the middle of DRAMA. Being around this type, even for a few hours WILL make my whole weekend better."
Then I spoke with Dee Wallace...and how true! 
As a New Yorker, I am really excited that Dee Wallace is paying us a visit next month. In addition to being a great actress, she is a healer, a channeler, and a self-help mentor to thousands of people all over the world. Because she is an actress, she loves going out and being personally involved with people.

She is going to be doing a seminar in New York at the New York Open Center Saturday, May 17th, from 2-5.
She is also setting up private sessions. The easiest way to take advantage of this great opportunity is to go to Dee's Website and go to The May Tour and sign up. In addition to New York, Dee will also be in West Hartford, Connecticut at The ATMA Center on the 18th. From there, Dee goes to Circles of Wisdom in Andover, Massachusetts on the 20th, and Leapin' Lizards in Freeport, Maine on May 23rd. Dee will also be taking part as part of The Susan Duval Seminars in Doylestown, Pennsylvania. It's going to be a fast and furious East coast tour. Dee did one of Susan Doyle's seminars last year and it was so successful and sold out. They got so much response that Susan set up this tour for Dee. The seminars are $55.00. The private seminars are $250.00. This is a huge discount over her standard fee.
Most people sit down with Dee and tell her, "I want this and I want this and I want this." Then Dee becomes
an open channel for whomever she is dealing with. One of her clients says it is like getting six months of therapy in an hour.
Dee works very fast dealing with the blocks in their energy and what they are focusing on. So many of us just think that worrying about "stuff" and trying to fix it is how we are going to get what we desire. It is really the opposite. It doesn't make sense to our brain and mind. Dee loves her work because it combines science with spirituality. Most are saying the same thing but you can really understand it from the point of view of science.
If we have never heard the word "candy" over and over and over in our lives, then we don't know what to picture in our minds. We don't know if we desire it. We don't know how to begin to start creating that for ourselves. Well, the same thing is true for a lot of people with money. We know what money is but the only sign off and the only connection most of us ever have is we don't have it, never have had it, and, therefore, never will have it.
As soon as we change those sign offs and focus, and Dee can show us how to do it in those three hours!, we can change our focus about ANYTHING! Our brains will start going, "I know that." When our brains do it, our subconscious does it. We become a conscious living entity as opposed to what Dee calls a default creator. When we default through our old stories, that's when we keep telling ourselves over and over the same thing. It is easy to address all of this in three hours. Dee holds a very strong intention that this is NOT yet another seminar that you walk in to and you get a lot of "woo woo stuff" and you feel really good and then you walk out and go, "What the heck do I now do?" When you walk out of Dee's seminar, you will know exactly what to do. The only catch is that you will have to CHOOSE to do it.
Dee absolutely loves seeing people realize their joy and their power again. Dee has a gentleman that she is working with that was "supposed" to die of AIDS years ago. His count is now so high now that he can't even be termed as HIV. When people ask him what program got him to this point, he tells them, "Look, I learned to love myself, accept myself, and know how magnificent I am again.
In other words, I don't judge me anymore. I am no longer in the fear of judgment from other people. I have totally moved in to loving and accepting myself." When you do that, every cell of your body and your brain responds to that. We default to what we have always been taught which is worry. Dee gets emails daily from people who are now telling her, "Oh my God! I woke up happy today." Some people cannot fathom the enormity of the idea of being to wake up happy.  There are thousands and millions of people out there who just don't know how.
This aspect of Dee's life absolutely goes hand in hand with her career as an actress. So much of her work has been fear based. She has seen every "monster" that you could possibly come up with. She has studied fear and the reactions of fear and has gone through the notion of "fight or flight" throughout her body. She can honestly tell us that no movie she has ever played and dealing with the monsters  of those films can ever compare with the monsters she has dealt with in real life.
 She has turned around and looked those monsters in the eyes and proclaimed, "I don't have to do this anymore." She now says, "Come on in. Sit down. Have a beer. Let's talk.How come I have this fear? Why are you here? You are not present in my life anymore.Why am I still running away from you?" It's freedom. It's powerful. It's easy to do. Nobody teaches us this. Quite frankly, a lot of people in the spiritual world teach it and don't walk it. They don't know how to teach you to shift your words and shift your perceptions. Going back to science, for example, Einstein said there is only one decision we all have to make in this world. "Is it friendly or is it hostile?" If friendly, then we get to choose through our perspective.Every single thing we look at, every person we deal with, every relationship we have, including the relationship we have with our bodies and money, what is your perspective on that right now? Do you see money as friendly? Is it an energetic entity unto itself? Do we look at as something we want to take care of us and play with us?
Like any good relationship, our perceived outcome is absolutely creating the result we are getting.
as Mary Lewis in 10
When I ask Dee what her fondest memory in her life is. She immediately goes to the birth of her daughter. In her professional like, it is a toss up between shooting Howling with Christopher Stone, who was then her fiance making it such a great time and being in Las Hadas, Mexico filming 10 with Blake Edwards and being treated like she was a queen. She had just arrived from Kansas and there she was in Las Hadas making a movie and was given a suite.
She thought she'd died and gone to Heaven. This was everything she had dreamed of as a kid in Kansas City. Dee thinks it is important to point out to everyone that she dreamed about it for that long and manifested it. She DID think it was possible. She also desires everyone to know that what you are reading here (and I hear it in her voice) is a clarity and power.
as Karen White in Howling
She assures me that this is not who she always was. A lot of people may think, "Well, she's a movie star.It's easy for her to be happy. Right?" I can say to anyone who feels that way that you do NOT know this business.
They also don't know from her past. She grew up incredibly poor. They were so poor that they lived with her grandmother. Her father was an alcoholic who ended up committing suicide Dee's senior year in high school. She lost her beloved husband, way to early, of eighteen years to a heart attack. He was fifty five. Her daughter was seven at the time. She has been hurt in the business a lot. Dee brought herself back from a pretty big "victim's" place. She believes all of this has been important in what she does. She knows that if she could move beyond this, so can you.
as Mary in E.T.

One disappointment for Dee was losing the made for TV movie, Adam about the kidnapping and murder of Adam Walsh on July 27, 1981. At the time, Dee was doing a movie of the week called Happy with Dom Deluise. The filming was overlapping by one day and the film crew that she was working with wouldn't hold the date for her and the other company wait for her and JoBeth Williams got the part. Dee has always regretted that. She really wanted to play that part. She has also always had a desire to play a nun!
Don't ask her why! She has no idea!!
This next question comes from Sarah Dashew who I recently interviewed.
What is your favorite season and how does it affect you?
Donna Trenton in Cujo
They don't have a lot of "seasons" in LA! Dee does, however, love the spring. The spring always makes Dee feel free and everything is alive again. She remembers, fondly, the springs of her youth in Kansas City. The beautiful colors of the flowers were blooming and Easter was always an important time in her family. The Easter celebration and hiding eggs are all fond memories.
When I asked Dee what her least favorite memory of her career in show business is? She asked me if I had a year!  Something, however, readily comes to mind.
Saeah Fairchild in Killer Instinct
She can't remember what the audition was for. It was after she had done E.T. and quite a lot of other things. She was having a lull in her career. She went into an audition and was told that her "stuff" had not been sent over yet and they we're not familiar with her work and if she could talk a little about what she had done.
Dee sat there and didn't know whether to be mad or angry, quite frankly. Dee had been in the business then about twenty years. She is now going on forty years in the business.
She then told them she didn't know how to answer that. She didn't know how to respond to them. She went into that audition putting her heart in their hands, knowing that they were professionals and knowing that they would KNOW what they desired and that she was welcomed there to bring
her talent. Dee had been in the business for twenty years and had been in the biggest blockbuster of all time and at that time, over thirty movies under her belt, (She just completed her 160th!), she was flabbergasted that they didn't know who she was!
At this time, she is having a ball with Grimm! "Fabulous writing, an amazing cast, and they are all so nice!" Once again, she feels like she has died and gone to Heaven. They just finished filming the closer of this season. "Oh my God! You guys will never believe what happens at the wedding!" Whether you are a Grimm fan or not, the last episode is not to be missed.
She is having so much fun with this. She has four or five movies that are yet to be released. She is juggling a lot of things that she really loves. She has two E-books, Wake Up Now! A Book of Universal Truths and Getting Stuff: Everything is Possible,  that just came out on Amazon, three books are also available in hard copy.
She was driving not too long ago with a friend when she was asked, "Why is there this need to get 'stuff'. Everyone is always rushing to get 'stuff'!" Dee then thought, "Why that's a great name for a book!"
Most people want more money, more of a relationship, more and better health. They want the houses, they want the cars, they want more STUFF! In her book, Dee talks about how to get the stuff by getting all the principles in place in order to get the stuff. The truth of the matter is, if you desire to get the stuff, you have to get yourself in alignment and harmony with the stuff you desire.
The stuff that Dee desires in her life right now are all centered around paying for her daughter's wedding. She also wants to pay her home off. As mentioned earlier, Dee is from the Midwest. There are certain innate qualities that come with that. If Dee went to her business manager, her manager might say, "That's not a good business decision to pay your house off." Dee is saying to herself, coming from Kansas, the paradigm was that if you had a home, you were safe. That comes from her poor upbringing. As a child, that became a very prevalent message to her subconscious. When Dee, as many of us do, goes into her energy, dealing with intellect and our heads, Dee talks about balancing it all out in her book. When Dee goes into that energy of KNOWING her house is paid for, she can take a healthy deep sigh. For Dee, it is that sense of FREEDOM. Can she create that feeling of freedom BEFORE her house is paid off? Absolutely! She must if the house is ever going to be paid off.

The biggest change that Dee has seen since starting in this business is no matter how long you have been in the business, you have to prove yourself over and over again.
The biggest lesson that Dee has learned in this business is that SHE is the answer. The buck stops with her. 
The universe cannot and will not help her to create anything if she has not CHOSEN, if she has not DECIDED, if she has not DIRECTED her energy to be in harmony with it. Everything starts with Dee. We ALL have so much power we don't even know is
within each and every one of us. There is a glorious joyous wonderful power within all of us. The challenge is that we have to step out and put our toes in the water. "OK! I'm going to try something different that I've never been taught. It doesn't make any sense to my brain but I'm going to try it."
A lot of times, for example, during the Olympics, we might here commentators say, "She had a lot of trouble in previous competitions, but she has a new trainer and they had to retrain their entire approach but watch her now and watch how accomplished they are in their sport." THAT is what Dee is doing. She is retraining what we already have been taught by people who really didn't know we were doing their best, in a way.  
Dee Wallace And Chris Mulkey in Grimm
There were many years in which Dee didn't have to audition for anything.
People knew she could act. They knew her qualities. They knew her professionalism. They knew she was going to always come through. At the most, she might be called into a meeting to talk about whether or not they all saw the character the same way and whether or not she still looked like her head shot!
Her agent called her recently. She was being requested to go in and audition for a mother. She would have two lines! Dee said, No, thank you." She has been playing mothers for forty years. They certainly know her presence on camera.
They also knew she could deliver two lines. She was not going to spend two hours in traffic for an audition. The business has become that absurd.
The pluses around this new paradigm are that a lot of new people get to be seen. They are always looking for new talent because they don't desire to repeat talent. When Dee was first coming up in her "heyday", when a series was on, if a character had appeared in previous seasons, they would want to bring that character back. If a series had been renewed, you knew you were going to have work. 
Now, they are looking for something different each season.
Dee writes an E-blast that goes out every Monday on her healing. Because she is working one on with with a lot of people, she is having sessions all over the world every day. When she is writing a book, she always writes in the morning because that is when she is an open channel and ready to go. She sits with her pen and literally asks, "What am I supposed to write about today?"
She never knows where that will take her. She sits down without direction and often times it is twenty pages later.
She has an office specifically for her writing. She has a big computer there and prefers that room. She also has a second office where she does her private sessions.
Dee's greatest virtue is LOVE. She truly goes there with her self, with people, with her pets.She has a lot of love to spread around. Her biggest vice is often times she, in the past, has given up her self to enable others not to create themselves. "I'll do it, I'll take care of it, I'll pay for it so you can be OK." In those instances, Dee doesn't win, they don't win, the universe certainly doesn't win because they haven't learned to be responsible for themselves. THAT and chocolate are Dee's biggest vices!
Before Dee walks out in front of the audiences lucky enough to experience her, the thought of how can she joyfully serve  the group that she is in front of goes through her head. She desires everyone to walk out not needing her and knowing exactly how to lead and live their own lives powerfully.
Please join me as I celebrate with Dee Wallace on May 17th as we celebrate each other!

May 17, 2014
The Open Center
Dee Wallace is an Actor, Healer, and Best Selling Author.
New York Open Center
22 East 30th Street
New York, NY 10016$55.00
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Please visit Dee Wallace's website for more info.

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